Nicholas Ashley, BACP
Nicholas Ashley is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom with seven years of practice.
About Nicholas
Nicholas Ashley is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom with seven years of practice. He focuses on helping people who are dealing with trauma, relationship problems, grief, anxiety, depression, and a range of other concerns. He creates a welcoming space where people can say what they think and feel without facing judgement.
He uses clear, practical methods to help people manage day-to-day distress. Sessions aim to make things feel more manageable and to build skills for coping with stress, difficult emotions and setbacks.
Background and approach
Nicholas listens carefully and helps clients set realistic goals for change. His approach draws on trauma-focused work and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, plus attachment-informed and client-centred methods. That mix lets him respond to painful past events as well as current life stresses.
Cognitive behavioural techniques are also used when a problem needs straightforward skills or thought work. Nicholas has experience with a wide range of topics, including LGBT concerns, addictions, parenting strain, ADHD, and intimacy-related issues. He also offers support for people facing chronic illness, bereavement, body image problems and career transitions.
Sessions are offered in English and are available to international clients. He works via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text messaging. The starting step is to complete a short matching questionnaire and book a session that fits the client's schedule.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 276003 | May 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
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Focus areas and approaches
Everything Nicholas lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Depression
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Hearing impaired
- HIV / AIDS
- Hoarding
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Traumatic brain injury
- Trichotillomania
- Visually impaired
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Ways of working Nicholas names
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Gottman Method
- Hypnotherapy
- Imago Relationship Therapy
- Jungian Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Somatic Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Systemic Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
How therapeutic approaches translate to online support
Trauma-focused therapy looks at how past harm affects feelings and behaviour now, and it uses careful, paced work to help people feel safer and more able to manage memories or triggers. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings while choosing actions that match their values, which can reduce avoidance and increase meaningful activity. Attachment-Based Therapy pays attention to how early relationships shape current patterns, helping people build more supported ways of relating and regulate emotions more effectively.Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the journey. Nicholas will work collaboratively to decide which methods suit a client's needs and goals. That means checking in about what feels helpful and adjusting methods over time so the work matches preferences and practical realities.
Online sessions use video calls, phone conversations, live chat or text messaging to fit different situations. Video is useful for face-to-face conversation and visual cues, phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited, and messaging or live chat can suit short check-ins or days when writing feels easier. These formats make therapy more flexible and easier to fit around work, family and travel while keeping the focus on purposeful, consistent therapeutic work.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does Nicholas help with?
He helps people dealing with trauma and abuse, grief, depression, anxiety and relationship or intimacy-related issues, among other concerns.
What is his therapeutic style like?
Sessions are open and non-judgemental with a practical focus on coping skills and clear goals. He combines trauma-informed listening with direct techniques when useful.
How much experience does he have?
Nicholas has seven years of professional experience working with a broad range of issues including LGBT concerns, addictions and parenting stress.
What credential does he hold and where is he based?
He holds BACP registration and practises from the United Kingdom.
Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?
Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English.
Which session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are sessions paid for?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, then schedule according to the therapist's availability.