Shelly Thomas-Baines, NCPS
Shelly Thomas-Baines is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief and low self-esteem.
About Shelly
Shelly Thomas-Baines is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief and low self-esteem. She offers calm, attentive support to people who want practical ways to feel steadier and more confident. Shelly works from a respectful, non-judgemental stance and adapts sessions to each person’s needs.
With four years of professional experience, Shelly draws on approaches that focus on the person in front of her. She uses client-centred listening to understand what matters most.
Background and approach
She also brings trauma-focused ways of working when past harm affects daily life, and mindfulness tools to help with managing overwhelming feelings. Sessions are designed to be collaborative. Shelly helps people identify small changes and coping steps they can try between sessions.
She pays attention to patterns that come from early attachment, abandonment or relationship wounds and talks through ways to shift them. People often come with complex problems such as chronic illness, caregiver stress, bereavement, communication breakdowns or difficulty committing to change. Shelly supports practical problem-solving alongside emotional processing.
She also works with concerns linked to autism and neurodiversity. Shelly holds the NCPS credential, which she uses in her practice in the United Kingdom. Conversations are carried out in English and she offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text messaging.
To begin, a short matching questionnaire is used so people can schedule sessions that suit them.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| NCPS | NCS23-02867 | July 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Cost Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
Everything Shelly lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Self esteem
- Depression
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Ways of working Shelly names
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Approaches that guide online therapy
Shelly uses trauma-focused therapy to help people who are affected by past harm. This approach looks at how upsetting events shape current feelings and reactions, and works on ways to reduce overwhelming responses and build safety in daily life.She also uses a client-centred approach which puts the person’s experience at the heart of sessions. That means listening closely, following what matters most to the client, and shaping the conversation around their goals and values.
Mindfulness techniques are used alongside those approaches to help manage anxiety and stress. Simple breathing and grounding practices are taught and practised to reduce distress and improve focus in difficult moments.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Shelly will discuss options and try methods that match a person’s needs, goals and preferences. This is a collaborative process where the therapist and client adjust the plan as they learn what helps most.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls let people work face to face without travel, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low, and live chat or text-based messaging suit shorter check-ins or times when typing feels more comfortable. These formats make it possible to fit therapy around work, caregiving or health constraints while keeping continuity of care with registered or accredited professionals.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does Shelly help with?
Shelly supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief and self-esteem concerns. She also works with related issues such as abandonment, caregiver stress, chronic illness and communication problems.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is warm and person-centred with practical focus. Sessions emphasise listening, collaborative planning and simple coping strategies to try between meetings.
What experience does she bring?
She has four years of professional experience working with people facing emotional and life challenges. That time has included supporting grief, trauma-related difficulties and long-term stress.
What credential does she hold and where does she practise?
Shelly holds the NCPS credential and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What formats are available for online sessions?
Sessions can take place via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging. Each format offers different ways to connect depending on need and preference.
How are costs and payments handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling a time according to the therapist's availability.