Paula Howel, BACP
Paula Howel is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief or depression.
About Paula
Paula Howel is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief or depression. She offers a calm, non-judgemental presence and supports clients who want to manage anger, cope with life changes, or work on relationship and family concerns.
Paula uses a straightforward style so people can talk about what matters to them without feeling rushed. She draws on seven years of professional experience and is registered with the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.
Background and approach
Paula blends practical techniques and reflective conversation so clients can try new ways of thinking and behaving between sessions. Common tools include structured thinking exercises and acceptance-based strategies. Paula also works with people facing addictions, sleep difficulties, self-esteem challenges, and neurodiversity-related concerns such as autism and attention issues.
She pays attention to patterns from earlier life - for example attachment, abandonment or commitment worries - and helps clients spot how these shape current choices. Her approach is person-centred and collaborative. Sessions focus on clear goals and small steps that fit everyday life.
Paula explains ideas in plain language and sets simple tasks when these will help progress. Sessions are offered in English and Welsh, and are available by video call, phone, live chat or text-based messaging. Getting started involves a short matching questionnaire and then scheduling a time that suits the client.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 329972 | March 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
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Focus areas and approaches
Everything Paula lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Grief
- Anger management
- Depression
- Coping with life changes
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Ways of working Paula names
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
How Paula’s approaches translate to online therapy
Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening closely and following what each person needs. It helps when someone wants a warm, accepting space to make sense of feelings and choices.Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, teaches practical techniques for spotting unhelpful thoughts and trying different behaviours. It is often useful for anxiety, low mood and sleep problems because it gives clear steps to practise between sessions.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, encourages noticing difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then committing to actions that reflect personal values. That approach can help with stress, grief and managing ongoing health or behavioural challenges.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paula will discuss options and try different methods to see what fits the client's goals and preferences. She treats therapy as a collaboration and checks in about what is helping.
Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat and text-based messaging. Video is good for a full conversation and visual cues, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat lets someone type through thoughts, and messaging suits shorter check-ins or notes between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and other commitments.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems can Paula help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, grief, anger and depression, along with issues such as addictions, sleep problems, parenting strains, self-esteem and career concerns.
How would a typical session feel?
Sessions are person-centred and conversational, with space to talk about feelings and practical steps to try between meetings.
How much experience does she have?
Paula has seven years of professional experience supporting people through a wide range of emotional and life challenges.
What credentials and region are listed?
She is registered with the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and is based in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and Welsh.
Can people outside the UK work with Paula?
International clients are not accepted at this time.
What session formats does she use?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different preferences.
How are costs and scheduling handled?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire and schedule a session.