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Nicola Lomas, BACP

Nicola Lomas is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief and trauma.

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About Nicola

Nicola Lomas is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief and trauma. She also supports people dealing with issues around sexuality and LGBT concerns. She places emphasis on creating a calm, non-judgemental space so clients can speak at their own pace.

Nicola uses an integrative style that draws on a range of therapeutic theories. That means sessions are shaped to fit each person rather than following a single rigid method.

Background and approach

Conversations focus on understanding feelings, making sense of painful events, and building practical ways to cope day to day. A core area of Nicola's work is supporting survivors of sexual abuse and rape. She brings sensitivity and empathy to these sessions and works at the client’s pace.

The aim is to explore the impact of those experiences, rebuild self-trust, and support recovery over time. She also addresses attachment and abandonment issues, guilt and shame, loneliness and communication problems. Practical steps are used alongside talk work to help reduce distress and improve relationships with self and others.

Nicola has five years' experience and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She offers sessions in English and accepts international clients. Sessions can be arranged online by completing a short matching questionnaire and scheduling a time that suits the client.

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BACP 404862 October 2026

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Sessions and payment

Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.

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Focus areas and approaches

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Approaches that guide online counselling

Nicola works in an integrative way, combining evidence-based techniques to match what each person needs. For example, she may use trauma-informed talk work that helps people make sense of overwhelming events and process difficult memories in a paced way. That approach focuses on safety, grounding and slowly building tolerance for distress.

She may also draw on skills-based strategies to manage anxiety and depression. These practical tools include breathing or grounding exercises, and step-by-step plans to break down overwhelming problems into manageable actions. These techniques can help reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. Nicola will work collaboratively to choose methods that suit a person's goals, needs and preferences. She adjusts pace and techniques as progress is made, checking in regularly to ensure the approach feels helpful.

Online formats offer practical benefits for many people. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that helps connection, while phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging support brief check-ins or flexible contact between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and daily life.

Frequently asked

What concerns does Nicola commonly help with?

She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse. Nicola also helps with LGBT issues, sexuality, and related feelings such as shame, guilt and isolation.

What is her general therapeutic style?

She uses an integrative approach, tailoring sessions to each person rather than following one method. Sessions combine talking with practical steps to manage emotions and behaviour.

How much clinical experience does she have?

Nicola has five years of experience working with people in counselling settings. That experience includes focused work with survivors of sexual abuse and rape.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international options are available?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients for online work.

Which session formats are offered?

Nicola provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How are costs and billing handled?

Session costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.