Nadir Mothojakan, BACP
Nadir Mothojakan greets people with a calm, respectful style and practical support.
About Nadir
Nadir Mothojakan greets people with a calm, respectful style and practical support. He focuses on helping people who are coping with grief, loss and major life changes. He listens for how past relationships and current stresses connect to present difficulties and guides people toward clearer choices.
Nadir draws on 33 years of work in the United Kingdom and holds BACP accreditation. He offers a straightforward way of working that emphasises listening first and then shaping goals that feel useful to the person sitting across from him.
Background and approach
Sessions aim to make space for strong feelings while also looking for small, achievable steps forward. Many clients come with worries about anxiety, depression, trauma and the emotional cost of long-term health conditions. Nadir also supports people dealing with anger, relationship strain, parenting stresses, addictions, sleep or eating concerns, and career setbacks.
He can help people understand patterns that began in childhood and how those patterns play out now. In session he uses a mix of practical conversations, reflective listening and evidence-informed techniques to help people notice what matters and try alternatives. Work often includes clearer boundary-setting, naming and validating feelings, and practising new ways of responding to triggers and stress.
He offers online work by video, phone, chat or messaging and will discuss which format fits a person’s life. If someone wants to focus on a specific goal, get help through grief, or untangle ongoing patterns, Nadir provides steady support and collaborative planning.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 381501 | October 2026 |
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Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
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Focus areas and approaches
Everything Nadir lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Bipolar disorder
- Depression
- Coaching
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counselling
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Workplace issues
Ways of working Nadir names
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
How Nadir combines approaches online
Nadir uses approaches such as Trauma-Focused Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to shape online work. Trauma-Focused Therapy helps people describe and make sense of distressing experiences, and it can be useful for those affected by abuse or other traumatic events. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying values and taking small actions that match what matters most, which helps with anxiety, depression and life transitions.Finding the right approach is collaborative. Nadir will listen to a person’s story, discuss goals and try methods that suit their needs and preferences. He checks in as therapy progresses and adjusts the way of working so it stays practical and relevant to the individual.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to make therapy easier to fit into daily life. Video calls allow conversational depth and visual cues. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to use video. Live chat and messaging can be used for shorter check-ins, brief reflection or ongoing support between longer sessions. These options give flexibility for different schedules, energy levels and communication styles.
Frequently asked
What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?
Nadir works with a wide range of concerns including grief, trauma and abuse, anxiety, depression, stress, addiction, relationship difficulties, parenting strain, career and life transitions.
How would this counsellor describe their therapeutic style?
He offers attentive listening and collaborative goal-setting, combining reflective conversation with practical techniques drawn from several therapies to help people try different ways of coping.
How much experience does this counsellor have?
He has 33 years of professional experience working in the United Kingdom, supporting people through grief, long-term health issues, workplace stress and relationship challenges.
What credentials and location are listed for this counsellor?
The profile lists BACP accreditation and practice in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are sessions offered in and can international clients be seen?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are accepted.
What session formats are available for online work?
Work can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on the person’s preference.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working with this counsellor?
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