Lily Llewellyn, BACP
Lily Llewellyn is a counsellor who uses person-centred and emotionally focused ways of working to help people facing trauma, anxiety, grief and relationship concerns.
About Lily
Lily Llewellyn is a counsellor who uses person-centred and emotionally focused ways of working to help people facing trauma, anxiety, grief and relationship concerns. She qualified with a postgraduate diploma and is a BACP member. Lily writes simply and listens closely to understand what matters to each person.
She blends Client-Centred Therapy with elements of Emotionally-Focused Therapy and existential thinking. Sessions aim to clarify feelings, improve communication, and rebuild a sense of agency after painful experiences.
Background and approach
Lily often helps people with stress, coping with life changes, addiction issues, eating and sleeping problems, and intimacy concerns. Her background includes an MA in Anthropology and postgraduate counselling study at Aberdeen University. She has worked as a school counsellor, volunteered with ChildLine and other services, and runs a independent practice.
These roles inform her practical approach and familiarity with a range of life problems. Lily describes therapy as a shared process. She works to create safety and steady support while people talk through emotions, family of origin issues, or attachment and communication problems.
She also supports people dealing with depression, bipolar, ADHD and compassion fatigue. Sessions are available online and by phone, and she offers options for live chat or text-based messaging. Lily accepts international clients and uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 396528 | August 2026 |
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Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
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Focus areas and approaches
Everything Lily lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Coping with life changes
- Addictions
- Trauma and abuse
- Grief
- Intimacy-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Depression
- Coaching
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Domestic violence
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Ways of working Lily names
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How Lily’s approaches translate to online therapy
Client-Centred Therapy places the person at the heart of sessions. The counsellor listens without judgement and follows the client’s pace, helping people feel heard and understood. This approach is useful for anxiety, low self-esteem, grief and many relationship worries.Emotionally-Focused Therapy focuses on emotions and attachment needs. It helps people identify patterns in close relationships and change how they respond to strong feelings. This style can support those dealing with intimacy issues, attachment concerns and trauma-related wounds.
Finding the right approach is part of the work and happens together. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what feels most helpful, then adapt the methods accordingly. Clients are involved in choosing whether to emphasise listening, emotional processing or meaning-making.
Online sessions give practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited or when a quieter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging suit shorter check-ins, reflective notes, or people who prefer writing rather than talking. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and travel while keeping the therapeutic focus intact.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Lily address?
Lily works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, relationship and intimacy-related issues, addictions, eating and sleeping problems, self-esteem, and career concerns.
What is her therapy style like?
Her practice draws on Client-Centred Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy with an existential perspective; sessions centre on listening, exploring feelings, and improving how people relate to themselves and others.
How much experience does she have?
She has five years of professional experience, combining roles in schools, volunteer counselling and independent practice since completing postgraduate study in counselling.
Where is Lily based and what are her credentials?
She is based in the United Kingdom and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, listed as BACP.
Which languages and locations does she support?
Sessions are offered in English and she does accept international clients.
What formats are available for sessions?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different schedules and preferences.
How does charging work?
Fees vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are arranged through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.