Demelza (Demi) Rowe, BACP
Demelza (Demi) Rowe offers support for people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy difficulties, and grief.
About Demelza
Demelza (Demi) Rowe offers support for people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy difficulties, and grief. She also helps with sleep and eating struggles, parenting strain, work stress, ADHD and feelings of low self-esteem. Demi uses a straightforward, compassionate style to help people talk through what's happening and find manageable steps forward.
Demi has worked in counselling for 16 years and holds BACP registration, which appears after her name as BACP.
Background and approach
She trained as a couples and relationship counsellor in 2012 and has additional study in grief, bereavement, trauma and abuse. Her experience includes helping people through relationship breakdowns and distressing life events. Her way of working is warm and practical.
She starts by listening and making sense of the issues you bring. Sessions focus on what matters to you, with explanations that are clear and free of jargon. You will be offered tools to manage symptoms and to improve communication and emotional understanding.
Demi blends approaches to suit each person. Core influences include client-centred principles - such as an accepting, non-judgemental stance - alongside trauma-focused methods, attachment-based ideas, cognitive behavioural techniques and mindfulness. The mix is tailored to the problem and to the person's pace.
People who meet her often find the work helpful for rebuilding confidence, restoring connections and handling life change. She aims to support people to make small, sustainable changes that improve day-to-day life.
Details from the counsellor's public professional profile · registration number listed
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| Body | Registration number | Expires |
|---|---|---|
| BACP | 80386 | April 2026 |
Registration details are as listed on the counsellor's public profile. You can check any number with the registering body.
Sessions and payment
Sessions are held online through our partner platform, by video, phone or messaging depending on the counsellor.
Cost Costs are shown on the partner platform before you commit. If cost is a concern, ask about reduced-fee options.
Focus areas and approaches
Everything Demelza lists on their public professional profile, in their own terms.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
- Depression
- LGBT
- Family conflicts
- Grief
- Eating disorders
- Sleeping disorders
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Career difficulties
- Bipolar disorder
- Coping with life changes
- Compassion fatigue
- ADHD
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Body image
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Dependent personality
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating and food-related issues
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Personality disorders
- Postpartum depression
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trichotillomania
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Ways of working Demelza names
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centred Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
Naming an approach is not evidence of training in it. This directory copies what each counsellor lists and does not check training records.
How approach and online delivery work together
Trauma-Focused Therapy helps people process distressing past events by gently working through memories, responses and coping patterns so day-to-day triggers become more manageable. It is often used for people who report intrusive memories, avoidance or strong emotional reactions after difficult events.Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns of relating. It helps people understand trust, closeness and communication problems and build healthier ways of connecting with others.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss your goals, preferences and how you feel in sessions, then try methods that suit you. That process is collaborative and can change as your needs change.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when you need it, phone sessions can work when bandwidth is limited, and live chat or text-based messaging suit shorter check-ins or days when typing feels easier. These options make it simpler to fit therapy around work, family and travel while using the approaches described above with a registered professional.
Frequently asked
What concerns does Demi commonly help with?
Demi supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, sleep and eating problems, ADHD and related challenges.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is warm and straightforward. She listens first, explains things simply and offers practical steps you can try between sessions.
What experience does she bring to therapy?
She has 16 years of counselling experience and has worked with many people facing relationship breakdowns, trauma and mental health difficulties.
What professional credential does she hold and where is she based?
She is listed with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
In what formats can sessions take place?
Sessions can be carried out via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging.
How are fees and payments handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
What does someone do to begin working with Demi?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.